<h3>The man I love got another girl pregnant, what do I do?</h3>
This may seem stupid, but I need outside opinion on this situation. Ive been seeing this guy for 2 and a half years. When we first met things were great but then he had committment issues, he said that he wanted to focus on getting his MBA at BU. I supported this for a little while because I know relationships is not easy task. So we continued to sleep together,we paraded along as if we were in relationship. I would go to church with him and his family, (parents siblings, go to functions with him and his family) hes had dinner with my parents. To everyone else were a couple. Eventually this charade got annoying and I told him that we needed to be together he said he didnt want a relatioship so I cut off things between us. 1 year after this pretend relationship I cut it off between us. 4 months later he said that he wanted to be with me. At this point I am in love with him so I agreed. Everything was going well, but things starting happening. Started neglecting me, so I knew I deserved better and I walked away. But then we started sleeping together again after we broke up. Later on we made it official. I did ask him if he slept with anyone While we broke up he told me that he did and it was nothing. Even though I was pissed I respected the fact the he was honest with me. Recently he surprised with a trip to Anguila for my 26th bday. He randomy hit me up last week and said that we cant go to anguilla anymore and that he can not tell me until next week. A couple of days ago he came over and said that he had to talk to me and he basically told me the girl he slept with in October is pregnant and she just told him about it two weeks ago. And hes been trying to figure out if the baby is his or not, how to tell me and his parents. I at this point dont even know what to even say or do. Everyone is telling me to walk away, some say if you love him try to work it out. Once a baby comes, a mans perspective on life changes indefintely and I dont know. I've never seen him so stressed, upset, in my life. But hes also so selfish. He thinks hes invincible and this time he got himself in a situation where he cant get out of. And its sort of sad to see him so despretly upset. He doesnt like the girl, Ive gone through so much with him. Where do I fit in any of this, do I even fit in anything, I dont know the girl she might be the baby mama problem type girl, she supposedly have feelings for my bf so it makes me question if hes telling me the whole story, it also seems as though she purposely didnt tell him about the pregnancy until it was too late to do anything about it. I just see so many issues with this. my heart is broken! What should I do? FYI he told me this 2 days before my bday. Worst birthday ever.
<strong>Anguilla best answer:</strong>
<p><i>Answer by late_sleeper35</i><br/>If he didn't like her then why did he sleep with her? Honey just walk away while you can. He isn't worth it and with that baby who knows what will happen.</p>
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