Nirvana - About a Girl (Live Hollywood Rock, 1993)

Get a Girl to Like You - And It's Not Just Your Mother!

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So your mom thinks you're heaven's gift to her; your sister says she has never met a more responsible man than you. But you wonder, if they really think you're all that, then why are you still not seeing a beautiful girl, or any girl for that matter? Why can't you get a girl to like you? What could be wrong in this picture?

For starters, most girls don't see you the way the members of your family does. First impressions don't let them peek into the good heart and the responsibility that your mother and sister talk about. Maybe they're telling the truth, but you actually need to exert a little more effort to let other female species notice it. It's not really that hard. Read on to get some tips on how to get a girl to like you, and we're talking about girls outside of your family.

For you to be on the radar of this girl you like, you have to make them remember you; remember your face - in a good way. You don't want your officemates singling you out because you're the one who looks like you just stepped out of bed every morning. Get a girl to like you by looking good. Make some effort in dressing appropriately; make sure your clothes are neatly ironed, your shoes well-polished. Be mindful of your hygiene: take a shower, comb your hair and brush your teeth; make sure you smell good in every way before leaving the house. This way, girls will take a second look, not because you're too sloppy for words, but because you seem to fit their standards of a promising date.

Whoever said that chivalry is dead has been mistaken. Even in a world of powerful, independent women, girls are still waiting for someone who will open the door for them, who will pick up their books when they drop it. Most girls like to be the damsel in distress once in a while. Somehow they still long for a knight in shining armor, who will catch them when they fall in their high heels, who will sweep them off their feet. If you want girls to take a liking towards you, never forget your manners and always be courteous in dealing with them. Get a girl to like you by being a perfect gentleman. And don't make the mistake of just treating women you like with respect, and acting like a complete pig with the others. Girls can easily tell if you're putting on an act, and it's all for show.

Moreover, girls like boys with a personality. A beautiful face can be such a bore when the owner doesn't have anything interesting to say. So investing in a sound mind is as important as investing in a healthy body. Get a girl to like you by being smart. And not just in terms of being booking or nerdy; women obviously like engaging in good conversation. Whether it's about something you heard on the news or bits about your favorite hobby, voice out your opinions and show her that you're not all muscle, you also have a brain.

Finally, what makes women admire basketball players and talented athletes? More than their looks and the mystery, it's actually how they are so into their sport, or their craft. They like guys who are good in something they do, who love their work. So, get a girl to like you by being passionate. Girls like men who are driven by passion, not just because it is a foolproof way to success, but because they find that if this certain guy gives out much enthusiasm in what he does, then they will be as enthusiastic about them when they get to catch his eye. So indulge in your favorite sport, keep learning about your craft; it's a major turn on for women.

With these tips, you will be a chick-magnet in no time. And eventually, you'll find that girl who will love you as much as your mom and sister does.