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Get a Girl to Bed - 3 Fears to Tackle To Get a Girl in Bed

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How to Get Into a Girl's Pants Easily and At No Time

One of the most important thing to remember as a man is that girls like people who show least worries. Being always positive, without bragging is a sure way to win a girl in the shortest time and proceed to get laid. In fact girls are more likely to fall in love with a guy that is carefree and who seems to have least problems. The rationale to this is that a girl has her own fear and from their make up, they need a man who can take care of their own problems as well as the girl's fears. Look at it from the aspect of a man as a protector and one that has answers to all the problems. Well, while this may not necessarily be true, you will need to act exactly like you have everything under control and nothing shakes you down.

What Girls Fear Most About Sex with Men ?

Well women have fears too and their mainly border on the aspects of their self esteem, security and safety. Most girls will refuse to go to bed with you if they have the slightest inclination that you will not be there for them when needed. Like you well know most women don't like the one night stand. It's all about their emotional security. Moreover girls tend to feel that they stand to loose more if they were to have sex with a man they hardly know. In detail, girls fears that can quash your dreams of ever having her include the below:

Fear of Not Being Beautiful Enough

If you reflect a little, you will find out that almost all women like to hear these words "you are so beautiful". Women always have a feeling that they are not as beautiful as they would want to be. I guess this explains why they spend at least 30-40% of their time glooming in salons, beauty parlors or simply doing their nails at home. Now...Your cardinal rule number 1: Always, and especially at the onset, tell a woman how beautiful you think she is. Even if you may not be very much convinced of that...SAY IT.

Being frank sometimes will get you nowhere. I'm sorry to say this, but if you are the straight talker, no nonsense, say-it-is guy; you might just consider changing that stance when commenting on a woman's beauty or lack of. By you saying she is beautiful you are actually helping her convince herself that she is beautiful. And it doesn't matter how beautiful she actually knows she is either, you still will need to say it. And not once or twice...mm...mmmm; forever say they are beautiful. If you need the merchandise anyway.

Fear of Rejection after Having Sex with You

The second most potent reason why a woman will refuse to go to bed with you is if she even thinks you will desert her as soon as you are through with her. For most women, the fear of abandonment is so real that they would rather avoid you altogether than take you to bed.

As a guy, you will need to reassure her that you are in it for the long haul. A girl needs to be told that you will be here to stay and are not looking to ravage her and dump her. Convince her that you want her as your girlfriend and possibly long after that. Girls want to hear you talking permanent, share plans for the future with her. Tell her how you see yourselves together, share your plans with her and put her in that exact picture. This will assure her that you are really interested in her for keeps. Girls hate short flings. A man's got to commit, no matter how much lies they have to tell.

Fear of Pregnancy and Disease

The other fear among women that you will have to deal with is the fear of getting pregnant. It's never the right time for pregnancy for a girl unless she is married and ready to make babies. In addition, girls will be very concerned about contracting diseases like HIV, herpes etc. here you need to play it very cool and avoid assuming things. Timing is the most important thing in tackling this fear among girls. If you say the wrong things and the wrong time, you will be flicked out so fast you won't know what hit you.

The best way to deal with this issue is to broach the subject of condom use in a way that makes her know that you advocate condom use as a way to prevent pregnancies and disease. This will tell her two things; that whatever other sexual encounters you have had, you protected yourself and that you would most likely use the condoms if you ever got to that level with her. Remember bring up the condom subject is a very long winding way. Don't ask her whether she likes using condoms. Say something like "I think there would less people with AIDS if people learnt to consistently use condoms" Once she is sure that she will be safe when you have sex, then you are almost there.

The overall objective of tackling a girl's fear to making love is to also get her to start thinking about sex. The more they think about it, the more they start imagining themselves making love to you. And sooner than later, something will give and she can wait no more. Now put this in mind the next time you approach a beautiful girl and you will be surprised at how easy it can be. You could also get more detailed information on doubling your dating by getting and e-book and free dating newsletters sent to you. See below links.