<h3>What do my fiance and I do when his mother and father aren't going to make it to our wedding in the Caribbean?</h3>
My fiance's mother (hypochondriac) and has many diseases plus is an anorexic, has just informed us she is too ill to make it to our wedding in the Caribbean. (Anguilla). She has told us it could be fatal if she got Hep A,B. She has made a trip to the UK and eats out at restaurants all the time? Now his father has told us he would love to come, but that he just wouldn't feel right going without her. So now neither one of them is going to make it to their 'only son's' wedding day! My parents are going to be there. So he will have nobody there for him. Personally I could care less if they're there but it makes me sad for him and he is really upset about it all and their childish behavior. I have said I would comp. and have it in Mexico, but she won't go there either. Hawaii is not an option. I don't want to have it there. I also don't want to feel resentful for the rest of my life knowing that she will control where we say our vows! She is such a weak, pathetic woman. We are total opposites! Help!!! Any suggestions? My fiance will do it wherever, but he too would like to do it in Anguilla.
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<p><i>Answer by ♥ April ♥</i><br/>His mother suffers from a very serious disorder that is not easy to control - so try not to just dismiss her as a weak, pathetic woman.
You both knew that she was ill so this shouldn't really come as a surprise to either one of you.
Obviously having his parents there is important to him - why can't you just compromise? Why can't you have the wedding where you live and then go on your honeymoon in the Caribbean? I think that it is important to have both of your parents there and in the long run your fiance is going to have some resentment if they cannot go.
You can always say your own private vows while on your honeymoon - but for the sake of your fiance and his parents try to have the ceremony locally.
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