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How To Talk To a Girl For the First Time - Secrets Revealed

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Some guys are just naturally born with confidence and the skill on how to talk to a girl for the first time. But are you that lucky guy? Being rejected doesn't mean you're less attractive. Maybe you're just doing things that repulse girls because you have been misled about what they really want to hear. Here are some secrets every guy should know about picking up girls.

Most men don't realize that women like guys with high social value. Say in a bar, girls usually notice the guy who is making his friends laugh or engaged in conversations with other people than those who are just sitting alone scoping for a girl to pick up. It makes them think that this guy is popular so he must be really interesting to talk to. When you do walk up to the girl and talk to her she may have already decided that you're worth it. But this tip does not apply to all cases, only when you are in a crowded place where many other guys are picking up girls.

A good opener is key to learning how to talk to a girl for the first time. You don't even have to be super clever about it but it should catch her attention so you can continue with the conversation. Girls love compliments so a good way to open is to tell her how beautiful she looks or how great her complexion is. Showing appreciation early on will give you a good start.

When asking a girl a question, make sure that it is open-ended which allows her to give an opinion or share a story behind it. For example do not just ask where she lives; rather ask her what's so good about living in that place. If the question requires a simple yes or no answer, don't ask it at all. Girls love being asked for their opinion and it's a great way for you to get to know more about her too.

Have a point of view for every question that you ask. Make sure you choose the right questions that will allow you to share your positive qualities to make the girl like you. After she has given her answer, express also how you feel about it without totally contradicting her. Or if you must, do it in a polite way that is not offensive or judgemental. It's also important to answer honestly so that you do not give the girl a wrong impression about you that can cause problems in the future.

It's not a secret that talking to a girl does not get you anywhere if you don't build a connection. Find the things that you both like or dislike and you can go from there. For example you both may be into sports so you can arrange for a running meet. Take all these tips and use them so that next time you know how to talk to a girl for the first time.