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5 Tips on How to Find a Dream Girl - Know How to Beat Your Competition

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So you are ready to go out and find that dream girl huh? Is your idea of a "dream girl" a tall legged blonde with a red sports car and money to burn? If it is, then wake up! If your dream girl is more the girl next door type, you might actually have a chance of finding her because this is more of a reality. That brings us to our first tip:

1) Set Realistic Goals

Let's face it, most of the dudes that get the leggy blondes are rock stars and fashion photographers. With that being said, let's try to set some more realistic goals. Who knows, you just might get everything that you ever wanted in a girl by looking for the girl next door, you just don't know it yet!

2) Know Where to Search

If you know exactly what you want (realistically), then you will know where to start looking. Are you just looking for a one night stand? If this is the case, then you may want to set your scope at the local bar to find that dream girl... Looking for something more serious and long lasting? Then you might not want to look for love among a bunch of drunk people, this is just not the place to find it.

3) Prowling Like a Pack of Wolves

You see it all the time at local clubs and bars...Men run in packs just as much as ladies run in packs. Why? Because they have more success at finding a date with it. So if you are having a tough time finding your dream girl then you may want to consider asking your friends to help you where to look. Which is more effective? A wolf that prowls alone or a pack of wolves that prowl together? Wild animals always hunt in packs...and we as males can also hunt in packs! The more dudes that you have on the prowl, the more likely you will find that special someone. You are definitely increasing your odds if you have friends at your side to assist you.

4) There is More to Her Than Meets the Eye

What you think may be the perfect girl may turn out to be the most vapid and shallow person you ever met, in the blink of an eye. From my experience, the cutesy girl next door always seems to become a better friend in the long run. The gorgeous girl from Orange County that works for a modeling agency will not be the best choice for a dream girl simply because she cares about her looks more than you. Don't get hung up on what society declares as the dream girl, this just isn't a reality.

5) Talk to Everyone

So, where do you find that dream girl? She could be anywhere, really. She could be the perky blonde passing you in the hallway at work. She could be the brunette that washes her clothes in your apartment's laundry room every Wednesday night. She may even be the fiery red head that serves you your morning latte at the local Starbucks! Women are all around you and one of them might very well be your dream girl, you just have to keep your eyes open and take action if you feel like you could make chemistry with her. If you are not sure, start talking to her anyway to get to know her a bit better! There is no reason not to strike up a conversation with random girls...not only will this allow you to find that dream girl but it will also make you more confident. Remember this, just because you initiate a conversation with someone doesn't mean you are picking up on them.

If you don't seem to be having much success with finding your dream girl don't stress about it. There are plenty of fish in the sea and plenty of opportunities, you just have to be a bit patient.

Let's picture this for a moment: Let's say that day comes when you finally meet that special dream girl. You both are dating for awhile and things are really clicking well. You start to think about marriage and having visions of your life together with her (wait...WHAT? Did I say marriage? Yeah I sure did). The fact is this girl has made you happier and probably made you want to be a better person. That is what marriage is all about. Just think, if you had stayed mule headed about it, you would've missed out on the opportunity to find this dream girl and what she has brought to you. With that being said, smile at the perky blonde at work or that hot brunette in the laundry room; she just might be your dream girl in hiding. It's up to you to search for that dream girl and try to make it happen captain!