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How to Date the Girls You Want Online

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To get a girl online you need to know how to talk to her. Dating sites are a kind of social media site and it's conversation that rules the nation. And if you want to have the power to choose and catch the girl you want online, then you need to know how to talk to girls online because it isn't the same as offline. Read this and I'll give you the powerful secrets that will have girls' heads buzzing with your name and dying to get your messages.

Online you don't have eye-contact, body language, tone of voice and all the subtle ways of communicating. All these things are powerful tools in flirting offline but you just don't have them with messaging and email. But you sure gotta flirt. So how?

First up, be in no doubt that in the beginning you are going to have to start conversations with girls that you want. You just have to get the courage together and initiate. Later, the girls will come to you. But at the beginning you have to start conversations. This is how you're going to learn.

Go through and send a message to ALL the girls who have a profile that interests you. Yep, you are going to be sending a lot of messages but you are going to get the pick of a lot of girls that you want.

And believe me dating has gone mainstream. It hasn't only lost the stigma attached to it in the early days it has become positively cool to date on line. This means that there are now truckloads of quality, hot women waiting for you in online dating.

Your profile picture must be a good one: you should look clean, happy and active. The first thing the girl will do when she gets your message is check your picture. If she likes the picture she'll read the message. If she sees someone whose face is obscured, who is grimacing, being stupid or clearly drunk, she will delete you. She won't think it's fun or funny, she'll just delete you. So, be bright, look good, look straight at the camera and smile.

Now here's some killer advice to get your messages read: get your title right. Don't bore her with 'hi, you look cute' or 'want to chat?' or other inane titles like that. If she's a hot, quality date she's going to be receiving (and deleting unread) hundreds of messages titled like that every day. You have to stand out. Make your title longer, more cryptic, arouse her curiosity. If you do that you will already have cut away 95% of the competition.

Then the message that you write should be focussed on getting to know the girl. Ask her about herself, comment on something she's written in her profile, show an interest and ask to know more. Don't mention your physical desires (you're a guy, you're bound to be thinking about it but just don't mention it yet). Be polite say you'd love to hear back from her. Keep it long enough to be interesting but short enough to tantalize.

If you do that, you've cut away 99% of the competition.

You better know now that you are going to send hundreds of messages (that's just a measure of how many hot dates there are for you online) and it maybe that many of them will not reply. Don't get hung up about it. Don't message them again. Forget it and move on. Because there will be, if you do what I've suggested, a load of girls that DO reply. These are the only ones you need to think about. So what do you do when you get these replies?

You message back immediately. Don't listen to the guys who tell you should wait a few days so as not to seem desperate. That's not how it works. Reply straight away and you look like you are really interested. It's flattering to a girl if you get right back to her. It also means your reply is the first she gets and again you've just cut away the competition.

Also make sure you check to see who is actually online when you write back and prioritize those girls.

Given that you've made a neat profile, got a good picture and your message was cool and attractive, you have a good chance of being immediately in a live conversation with a hot potential date.

And now it's down to the chemistry you create. But converse, take, show an interest, chat, flirt and go nice and slow: there's no rush and women don't like to be rushed. You've put yourself way ahead of the competition, you've targeted hot girls that you really like the looks of, she's hot on you so you're king. The game is yours so don't foul it up now. You have all the time in the world.

Follow this advice and within a short time you will have as many dates as you want, with who you want and when you want.

Get to it.