How To Ask Out A Girl: 3 Secrets To Getting Date (+ 5 Quick Tips)
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People obsess about the pitfalls and risks of asking out a girl. However in reality it is a very simple process. There may be a million different ways to ask out a girl, from overly romantic gestures to impersonal emails but the end result is always one of two things. Either the girl says yes and you go on a date or she say no and you move on. It can still be a scary prospect so here are some tips to give you the best possible chance of success.
1. Always be confident:
No matter how old you are can be a scary thing asking out a girl for the first time but every girl appreciates confidence and finds it attractive. Don't be afraid of rejection, it is not the end of the world if a girl says no. Confidence also means doing it in person. It may seem like the easier option to send an email or a text to a girl but even if you think you can get your feelings across better, it is not a good idea. Being brave enough to ask a girl out in person will make it so much more likely she says yes. Always act casually when you ask a girl out: if the girl says yes to your offer of a date don't get too over excited, arrange a suitable time and place and then move away. Remember if she has said yes she will likely be just as excited as you but you want to play it cool and keep your air of confidence. If she says no, keep calm and just say 'okay no worries, maybe some other time' and move the conversation to a new topic or just say 'I've gotta meet someone in ten minutes but I'll see you later' and walk away. Rejection happens, it is a fact of life and you must be prepared for it but it is better than always wondering what might have been. Either way do it all with a smile, smiling relaxes her and will relax you too.
2. Pick something different:
How you ask a girl out is also important. You need to remember the girl has probably been asked out plenty of times before. Simply asking, 'do you want to have dinner' is too vague. If you want to suggest dinner then have a specific restaurant and a reason... 'I read about this new Japanese restaurant where they cook all the food in front of you, we should check it out.' If she likes going to the movies then strike up conversation about a new film and ask if she would like to go and see it with you as a date. Casual teasing can also work- playfully argue over who is better at bowling and then challenge her to settle the debate on a date. Always make sure you settle upon something more interesting then just a drink in a bar, by differentiating yourself from other guys you make yourself more attractive immediately.
3. Do it now:
You know what to do and you know how to do it. Now you need to act and go and get the girl. There is nothing to be gained from waiting, in fact it can only hurt your chances. If you already know the girl you want to ask out then waiting too long might mean you end up in the 'friend zone' and that is not an easy place to come back from. If she doesn't know you like her, or even know who you are yet, then there is nothing to stop her from saying yes to another guy who asks her out before you do. You gain nothing by waiting and wondering what might have been can be the most painful of all outcomes. There are always ways to maximize your chances and the best way to do that can be found in this guide.
How to ask a girl out- Quick steps:
1. Be well groomed: make sure you are wearing clean and nice clothes and you have washed etc.
2. Separate her from the group: it is far less daunting and more intimate to ask a girl out one on one so say 'can I speak to you for a moment?' and move her away from her friends.
3. Be confident and maintain eye contact, don't mumble an invitation to the ground but look her in the eye and ask her out with confidence and a smile.
4. Let her pick the time: if she says yes to the date then let her pick the day, if you suggest a day that she is busy it immediately makes things a little awkward and negative so let her suggest the day and time.
5. Excuse yourself: if it has gone well there is nothing to be gained by hanging around, excuse yourself and leave her to her excitement. If she has said no you can either casually move the conversation on with a 'no worries, maybe some other time' and change topic or again make your excuses and leave.
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