Nirvana - About a Girl

How I Became a Dating Expert - Confession of a Girl Dating Nerd

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I am one of those guys that have never really been fast with the girls. My looks are also not what girls see in the soap operas. Though I am a very driven person no girl waits around long enough to hear your plans so as to like you. And let's face it, even if they listened, they would say they are not interested in my material things, where I work, or where I stay... ohh they couldn't have been more wrong.

You see, I came out of college and got a job top notch company. It was not long after that, that I got a girl so beautiful we matched scenes of "the Beauty and the Beast". We really were close, and after sometime we decided to move in together. By then my salary was way above the average. I could afford a rental house in one of the posh estates. She never lacked for anything... and yes I slaved for all that trying to keep her as the queen she was.

There are many of my friends who actually thought I didn't deserve this drop-dead-gorgeous chic for a girlfriend but I new better...or so I thought. Anyway, we stayed on happily until by a stroke of misfortune I lost my job and had to start a private business. Of course some of the luxuries had to be cut down. The actual death knell however came when I suggested that we move from the expensive house we lived in to a cheaper but reasonably comfortable house. This she refused to hear. We started arguing about money, a thing that was never an issue in better times. Before I knew it she wanted out and said that she just had fallen out of love... now what does one do with someone that falls out of love... ill tell you ... not much. I had to let go.

I cannot start to explain the fury and rage I felt. I felt betrayed, cheated even abused. Soon enough I started seeing girls differently and withdrew to a corner in my mind where I never wanted much to do with girls. I convinced myself that I would need a lot of money to be able to retain a girlfriend or wife. You see, I considered all girls as conniving, manipulative, materialistic and yes ready to fly off at the slightest agitation or discomfort. Inside of me I knew I was wrong, but I decided to stick to that mindset if only as a defensive mechanism to my continued solace and lack of companion. I just stopped dating and resigned to fate. Look for money and they will come running, I figured.

I wouldn't have had such a strong and wrong perception of girls had I not encountered other setbacks in later dating attempts. I would arrange for a well known girl to meet me at a club, café or park, and they would agree... but they never showed. The more my dates kept bouncing, the more I got frustrated. As I said, I do not have one of those faces they have on soap operas. Infact, I would never make it to the last 1000 auditioning for a Frankenstein role.

I would be lucky to pass auditions for the extras in any movie featuring a street riot. But nevertheless, when I open my mouth, a girl sticks around long enough to know there is something here. Problem is, none sticks long enough for my mouth to open. Anyway, I was doing extremely badly in my dating of girls, whether mature, college girls or maids. Badly is actually an understatement. I knew I had to do something. It was now a year since my last relationship that sunk me to rock bottom and I couldn't even get myself a coffee date. Something had to give.

One day, I talked to a good friend of mine who for every one of my failed dating tries; he seemed to get 10 successful dates. After listening to my problem in getting a girl to show up for a date, he just looked at me and laughed out loud. He said he thought he was no match for me, that I have got all it takes and more. I didn't know all that myself.

As far as I was concerned, I was a total failure in dating. My friend then went on and told me that he thinks am way too serious when talking to women. That I should vibrate positive energy and surely the girls will start appreciating me. You see after I was dumped the first time, I developed this negative attitude towards girls. I couldn't not engage them in tease talk; I could no longer play the dating games that girls seem to enjoy so much. You know what I am talking about, the back and forth, come- go, Yes-No crp.

Then just as a passing piece of advice, my friend mentioned that there was this one e-book that I can get from the internet that will instantly change the way I look at dating women. He said that he once read it and no wonder he was 100 fold better in meeting, talking and engaging girls. The girl dating e-book was called Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. I decided that I will need to get a copy of my own and started researching reviews of double your dating e-book.

Searching from Google I was astounded by the many highly positive reviews that this guy David got. I immediately downloaded a copy of the double your dating e-book. The 90 page dating e-book is simply a bible for people looking to improve their dating skills. I learn't that the author had personally tested each and every girl-dating-technique he includes in his e-book rendering them guaranteed to work. It's awesome. I read the e-Book and re-read it another 3 times in a single weekend. Then I started planning. I had a lot to work on my appearance first, then my perception, then my confidence, my power, my charm etc. I also came to understand better...The Dating Game.

Now...Listen to this, on the first weekend after reading the e-book, I had 3 dates back to back. I had so many dates with some of the women I thought beyond me, I was amazed. Actually for one particular girl, my odds were as slim as an ice drop's chance in hell. But I did it. Well folks lets just say I moved from being a dating nerd to a highly efficient player. Most importantly is that, I previously thought it took money to date girls but since buying the e-book and getting down to business, the only thing that hasn't moved north is my salary.

And I still date some of the most beautiful, sophisticated and expensive girls...Player style. I would love to tell you what the e-book taught me but hey... I don't want this David guy lawyers breathing down my neck. You would need to get your own copy by following the links on my author's bio below. The e-book is written by one of the most prolific, most respected dating expert who has on numerous occasions been featured on Oprah Winfrey talk show and on TV.

If you want to learn some of the real-life tested dating techniques from one of the most respected dating expert on Oprah and other TV Shows, follow the links included in my bio below.