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Seduce Girls - 4 Facts About Approaching Girls!

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Most single men don't have a girlfriend simply because he is afraid to approach a girl. So here are 4 facts that you should know when you want to approach a girl:

1. She is more afraid than you are!

Believe it or not, but this is true. Most girls are very nervous and afraid when a guy approaches her for example on the street. She doesn't know you that you want to steal her mobile phone or hurt her, she doesn't know what you want from her. The biggest problem is: You will see that she is nervous, but you won't be able to recognize that, and you will immediately think that she wants to get rid of you. So you will be more nervous and you probably going to mess it up because of that.

Solution: Try to understand that many girls become very nervous when a guy approach them - it doesn't matter if she likes the guy or not.

2. Your energy level must be correct!

If you want to seduce girls on the Internet, than this part isn't that important - but if you want to seduce someone on the street, than you should definitely read this part! You can't approach a happy girl when you have the worst day of your life and thinking the whole world turned against you. There are a many factors that will decide our energy level, like self-confidence, happiness, charisma, health, awareness, and so on. But this level keeps changing continuously depending on those effects. We are using numbers 1 to 10 to determine the energy level. For example if you have a very bad day, because it's raining, or you missed the bus, or one of your friend lied to you, than you are probably at level 2 or

3. But if an unbelievable hot girl smiled at you at the store, you had your favorite food for dinner, and the most beautiful girl from your class sat down next to you and you had a great conversation, than you can easily have a level 8 energy level! The point is when you want to seduce and approach a girl, you must have a bigger energy level (at least with 1 or 2 points) than her. So if she has 6 than you must have 7 or more to make her talk to you. Believe me if that girl is on level 6, there is 99% chance that the girl won't be interested about you, when you are only at level 3.

3. Forget all pick up lines!

Sadly I continuously meet with guys who want to seduce a girl with an idiot pick up line that they read somewhere. The problem is that these boys don't know that most girls have heard those pick up lines (maybe some guy told it, or she heard it from a girlfriend or just read it somewhere). And believe me: it's more painful to approach a girl with a pick up line that she knows already, than a creative or funny one. So if you want to seduce a girl, do me a favor and forget all pick up lines immediately.

4. You are already better than others!

There a 3 type of guys:

Those men, who doesn't have a clue how to pick up girls
Those men, who doesn't have a clue how to pick up girls, but they are trying to learn the secrets of seduction
Those men, who are born pick-up artist, and picking up girls ever since.

Sadly most boys are in the first group, which is the worst possible case. You aren't in the first group, because you are reading this article;) (You are probably at least in the second group). This is why you are better than 99% of the guys! If you have the courage to approach a girl, than you should be very proud of yourself (regardless if you can pick her up or can't), because you achieved more in learning the method of picking up girls, than most of the guys ever will! Remember that and next time you are trying to pick up a girl, do it with that mental attitude!