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How to Approach Girls in a Large Group - Get Better Results With This Approach Method

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Have you ever wondered how to approach girls in large groups? Girls always feel a sense of security when they are in a large group. I guess it's more of a safety issue as they say there is safety in numbers. But it is much deeper level than that. You see girls since little kids like to be identified in a certain group. Like what you would call a clique. For instance, in high school all the popular girls might be cheerleaders and they would often be together. Well this type of behavior can still be carried onto the adult years. Unlike men who get together to watch the latest football game, girls like to get together to eat at a nice fancy restaurant. I'm not saying that men do not do this. But typically most men's ideal of guys night out involves heavy drinking, sports watching, or strippers. So the big question for you is how to approach girls in a group. I am not going to lie that this is much easier than approaching a girl that is alone. I mean this is more recommended by seasoned girl hunters like me. But let me go ahead and give you some pointers anyways.

Like I previously said to approach girls in a group is a little more difficult. Confidence is very important. Girls can spot out weakness really easy. They can literally smell blood and fear. One wrong move and you can appear to be the biggest joke of the evening. They be laughing and talking about you all evening. So how do you approach girls in a group can be summed up with just being polite and courteous. For example I can explain by going with the restaurant scenario. What I am giving you is an actual case study of when I ate at Applebee's a few weeks ago. This particular Applebee's is a rest haven of beautiful girls on Friday nights. It is not uncommon to see groups of 4 or 5 single girls eating out before they hit the clubs.

As usual I was sitting at the bar casing the joint. Trying to evaluate the area and picking out the hot girls. Please go back and preview my other article on how to talk to girls in a club if you need more help in this phase of how to approach girls in a group. Now that you spot the group of girls you want to approach, you have to remember this before you make the crucial mistake. The biggest mistake most guys do when they approach a group of girls is that they pick out the one they like the most.

This is the WRONG Move. It is the Kiss of Death!

You see girls are very competitive and you should acknowledge this and use it as leverage. When you pick out a girl from the group, you find out that another girl is hating on you. This is because you did not pick her. Girls typically do not like another girl to have an advantage over her. You probably had seen it several times when you talking to one girl and her ugly friend is hating. This because the ugly girl is not getting any attention. So therefore she does not want to be left out. Rather than being bored she will bug the hell out of friend to leave you alone. That's why I always advise to divide and conquer. Either get your buddy to talk to the ugly girl or you ask the girl to leave her friend for a minute. I go more in depth with this concept in another one of my articles. Now back to the topic at hand.

Now that you understand the girl hating principle you can proceed to approach the girls. So what you need to know is that you should approach the entire group of girls at once. Treat them all as equals. What I did was approach them at a convenient time. What you don't want to do is interrupt them because that will make you look rude. I noticed a quite time when they were not saying anything. Also I waited for them to almost finish drinking all the alcohol drinks. Girls that have some alcohol in them tend to be much nicer and easier to approach.

I said, "Hi Ladies, It is so nice to have such beautiful ladies sitting together" they started laughing Next I said, "Do you mind if I sit next to you all and talk a little bit?" "I am new to the area and love to have a stimulating conversation with such beautiful ladies"

You see I spoke to them as an entire group and did not pick out one particular girl. Now throughout the conversations I noticed 2 of girls that were really digging me. I could tell because they were much more engaged. Understanding that girls are competitive I used it as an advantage. When I spoke to one girl more the other one would interject and vise versa. You see they were in competition with each other for my time.

Long story short I eventually got both their numbers and we all hooked up the following day. All three of us had a really good time. Let just say they was really good friends and knew each other very well. To recap, how to approach girls in a group is done by:

Evaluate your location
Locate the girl groups
Find the perfect opportunity to approach the girls
Speak to the girls as an entire group
Pick out the one or two of the girls that is more interested in you
Follow these simple steps to approach girls in a group and you be having much more success.